How HAPI Impacted Me (#11)
An essay series featuring retrospectives by HAPI members, staff, and leaders in celebration of its 8th Anniversary.
Becoming a member of Humanist Alliance Philippines, International was one of the most unexpected events that happened to me in the past year. My life was quite a mess back then. The overwhelming pressure to succeed amplified my fear of “failing the future”; I frequently contemplated what I should be rather than what I can be.
Growing up, I was used to being alone and doing things all by myself since I don’t have any siblings. With the juggling act of taking care of my parents as they grew older while also handling other important matters in my life inevitably falling upon my shoulders, I always worried that I wouldn’t be up for the job. “Nobody is going to help you but yourself,” was the thought that ran through my mind countless times. But that all changed when I met the people from HAPI, whom I learned shared similar views in life as I do.
Being a HAPI Scholar, in particular, connected me with amazing people who made me realize that my passion for helping others and making this world a better place aligned with what humanism stands for. This organization and its members made me realize that I’m not alone for there will always be people who’d gladly guide me and help me improve.
Aside from that, they encourage the idea that kindness and generosity should be acts that come from one’s willingness to help others and not due to any religious reasons only. They helped me to continuously self-improve and gradually boost my confidence. I may have only been a Scholar for a few months, but I do not regret my decision to join. I am deeply grateful for all the opportunities and guidance HAPI has given me, and I will certainly do my best to contribute in any way I can.
– Kryshia Gayle Solon
HAPI Scholar
